I can bring up a hurt privately and honestly.
A Bible affirmation for healing a relationship, rooted in Matthew 18:15.
If your brother sins against you, go and confront him privately. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over.
Matthew 18:15 · BSBReflection
Jesus gives a simple first step when someone wrongs you: go to them, privately. Not to everyone else first, and not online. A private, honest conversation is often where a relationship gets won back.
A prayer
Lord, give me courage to talk to the person directly, and kindness when I do.